So it’s no astonishment one of my favourite distractions was, and still is, analyzing the world of relationships.
While it is customary to correlate men with “the masculine” and women with “the feminine,” it’s essential to note that these energies are not necessarily gender-specific, nor do they dictate sexuality.
Many relationship experts explore how physical desire in a relationship emerges from the polarity of the feminine and masculine energies amid two people—the more opposed the two energies, the more powerful the attraction.
Understanding the balance of these two energies can assist build attraction and retain the passion alive in relationships.
Understanding Polarity: Masculine vs. Feminine
While the situations that we have in common draw us together, the polarity between two personalities, the contrast between the masculine and feminine energies, ignites the passion.
This polarity relates to that powerful physical attraction amid two people, and the more opposed those energies, the more powerful will be the attraction in the relationship.
Masculine energy focuses on one thing at a time and is solution oriented when problems arise. It is about doing rather than being, thinking rather than feeling, hunting, protecting, making things happen and taking the lead or controlling a situation. Masculine energy is competitive, likes to win as an individual and enjoys feeling appreciated, needed or respected for what they do. The masculine energy is naturally drawn to the feminine and craves the softness that allows for them to open their heart & connect emotionally.
When under stress, the masculine energy can take on a feminine mask – particularly when they feel criticised, controlled or emasculated. This can alternatively prompt them to shut down and retreat, which repels the attraction of a feminine woman.
If you are a woman carrying a high level of masculine energy, you will find it challenging to attract and hold the love of a masculine man, and instead will be more inclined to draw the attention of a man in his feminine energy who looks to you to lead the relationship.
You are able to step into both Masculine & Feminine energy fairly easily. This will help you in the workplace or in situations where you may need to interact with both men and women.
In relationships, you would benefit from being able to tune more into your feminine energy to bring out the best in a masculine man.
Feminine energy is about taking in lots of things all at once. While the masculine energy focuses on one thing at a time, feminine energy is continually multi-tasking and processing everything at once. While the masculine energy is about performance and logical inclination, the feminine is about being with emotional strength.
When the feminine recognises a problem, they are drawn to sharing and connecting to resolve. The feminine energy is nurturing, understanding, intuitive and feeling, with a strong desire to feel wanted, pursued, cherished, honoured and protected.
The feminine energy requires to be acknowledged, heard and understood – where they believe their escort has compassion for what they are passing through. The feminine also needs to feel safe and protected – which allows them to be vulnerable and receive. When under stress, the feminine energy can take on a masculine mask –particularly when they feel unsafe, not desired or not understood. This can cause them to complain and take control – which repels the attraction of a masculine man.
If you are a lady carrying Feminine energy, you are more prone to attract a masculine energy man.